Archive for March, 2007

how to make girl to be ur own

i just copy and paste this article from my friend’s buletin board. really sweet indeed… :P

1. Tell her she is beautiful 2. Hold her hand at any moment…even if its just for a second 3. Hug her from behind 4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to 5. Wrestle with her :) 6. Don’t go hang out with you ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her 7. If youre talking to another girl,when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t 8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi" 9. Introduce her to your friends…as your girlfriend 10. Play with her hair 11. Pick her up (she loves it) 12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it 13. Make her laugh 14. Let her fall asleep in your arms 15. If she’s mad at you kiss her 16. If you care about her, then TELL HER 17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things:A stuffed animal(she’ll hug it everytime she goes to sleep),jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever),and one of his t-shirts(she’ll most likely wear it to bed)or sweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!!and flowers or something occasionally 18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone 19. Look her in the eyes and smile 20. Hang out with her on weekends 21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this) 22.Kiss her just for the heck of it 23. If your listening to music,let her listen too 24. Remember her birthday and get her something,even if its’n simple and inexpensive,it came from YOU.It means all the world to HER 25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it,even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.) 26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute.Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello 27. Give her wat she wants 28. Recognize the small things…they usually mean the most 29. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out 30.hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time 31.If u care about her…SHOW her!

hates

前阵子,刚刚和第二次的感情挥手和说再见,保重。。。这感情是不被看好的。。。虽然是两年的感情但它还是经不起考验,间中曾闹分手。。。每每见面都吵架。。。真的不喜欢这样。。。每次都得准时报到。。。有感被俘虏的感觉。。。很不好受。。。外面的人可能会说我不懂何物是爱,为何背叛他???我可以站在这里告诉你们这些站在我后面说我闲话的人,我并没有背叛任何人,但是我背叛了我自己。。。我明明不喜欢被摆布,但是我还是没反抗的被他管着。。。这种日子,我过得快疯了。。。直到那天,他伤害我最爱的人,我真的不能原谅他的幼稚。。。真的不能原谅。。。他可以伤害我,但是牵涉到我最爱的人的心,我绝不会就此继续任他摆布。。。结果,我下了最大的决心,把他甩了。。。really hard for me to make this decision… but then i force to do so… if not all my beloved prople will be hurt… sorry to say that… stop talking behind me… i cannot stand with u all already… stop that… pls…

bla bla bla….

recently, i felt stressful…

felt that got many things i haven’t settle down yet…

my assignments, my exam, my feelings with my surroundings, my hubby, …. what should i do????

who can tell me? really a nightmare… in a dilemma now…

wanna share this with all of u..

你最爱的,往往没有选择你

遇到你最爱的人,然后体会到爱的感觉;
因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现最爱你的人;
当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,才会知道什么是你需要的,也才会找到最适合你,能够相处一辈子的人。

你最爱的,往往没有选择你;
最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;
而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

没有人是故意要变心的,他爱你的时候是真的爱你,
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了,
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你;
同样的,他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你
当一个人不爱你要离开你,
你要问自己还爱不爱他,
如果你也不爱他了,千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开;
如果你还爱他,你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐,
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起,绝不会阻止,
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已经不爱他了,
而如果你不爱他,你又有什么资格指责他变心呢

爱不是占有,
你喜欢月亮,不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里,
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说,你爱一个人,也可以用另一种方式拥有,
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆,
如果你真爱一个人,就要爱他原来的样子爱他的好,也爱他的坏:
爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点,
绝不能因为爱他,就希望他变成自己所希望的样子,
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的,
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏,你都希望这个人陪著你;
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守,也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟,感情必须付出,而不是只想获得;
分开是一种必然的考验,
如果你们感情不够稳固,只好认输,
真爱是不会变成怨恨的

vege crazy..

i have been a vegetarian for 3 months already..

haha…

during this 3 months, many people asked me, " why you wanna be vegetarian? " some people also said that why a tiger also can be a goat, the world is gonna explore already… haha… then when go back home, for sure my family cannot accept that i’m a vegetarian now… they used many methods to force me to have meat… but then they failed… and they also told me that, they are heart broken to let me become a vegetarian.. just imagine.. in just 2 months, i loose about 4kg… really surprise indeed… they don’t want her daughter became thinny… hai… what can i do?

i choose to be like this, i am willing to do so.. :)

not because of anyone, but my own…

not bad to be a vegetarian…

:p

loving people

"loving people means giving them the freedom to be who they choose to be and where they choose to be… love is allowing people to be in your life out of choice. to have something or someone, you let go…."

this is the lesson i had learn from my past relationships…

really complicated indeed…

hope that, all of us will know how to appreciate our beloved one… not to hurt them but love them…

for me couple means to share, share feelings, share thinkings, share daily life and so on…

pamper them, caring them, but don’t too over.. or otherwise it will be a trajedic for u and her or him… trust me… i had suffered this already…

but now… no more already.. because i know that my current boy friend won’t let me suffer again…

happy day… :)